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Sam Vaknin author of Malignant Self Love - Narcissism Revisited  
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From: "Sam Vaknin author of \"Malignant Self Love - Narcissism Revisited\"" <vak...@mt.net.mk>
Date: Fri, 8 Feb 2008 20:13:30 +0100
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Subject: The Sadistic Patient and Syphilitic Narcissist - Abusive Relationships Newsletter - Number 134

NEW! Photos of a Psychopathic Narcissist and His World

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/narcissismphotos.html

The Monster in the Mirror (Sunday Times)

http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/relationships...

Egomania (UK Documentary)

http://www.channel4.com/health/microsites/0-9/4health/mind/wwr_manic....

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Egomania_(UK_TV_Documentary)

Sam Vaknin has just published a NEW e-BOOK "Personality Disorders Revisited" (April 2007)

450 pages about the Borderline, Narcissistic, Antisocial-Psychopathic, Histrionic, Paranoid, Obsessive-Compulsive, Schizoid, Schizotypal, Masochistic, Sadistic, Depressive, Negativistic-Passive-Aggressive, Dependent, and other Personality Disorders!

Click on this link to purchase the ebook:

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An electronic book is a computer file, sent to you as an attachment to an e-mail message. Just save it to your hard disk and click on the file to open, read, and learn!
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NEW!!!

Narcissistic Abuse Forum

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The Psychopath and Narcissist Forum

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Personality Disorders Topic Index and CASE STUDIES!

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/faqpd.html

NEW EDITION - Download The Narcissism Book of Quotes

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NEW EDITION - Download Sample chapters from "Malignant Self Love - Narcissism Revisited"

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NEW links directory here:

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NEW! Amazon blog

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Abused? Stalked? Harassed? Victimized? Afraid? Confused? Need HELP? Click on these links!

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III. NEW!!! "Toxic Relationships - Abuse and its Aftermath" e-book edition (February 2006)

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IV. NEW!!! "Abusive Relationships Workbook" e-book edition (February 2006)

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V. "Pathological Narcissism FAQs" - EIGHTH, Revised Edition (November 2006)

http://www.ccnow.com/cgi-local/cart.cgi?vaksam_FAQS

VI. "The World of the Narcissist" - EIGHTH, Revised Edition (November 2006)

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VII. "Excerpts from the Archives of the Narcissism List" e-book edition

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VIII. "Diary of a Narcissist" e-book edition (November 2005)

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IX "The Narcissist and Psychopath in the Workplace" e-book edition (September 2006)

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X. "The Narcissism Series" - EIGHTH, Revised Edition (November 2006)

EIGHT e-books regarding Pathological Narcissism, relationships with abusive narcissists, and the Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).

http://www.ccnow.com/cgi-local/cart.cgi?vaksam_SERIES

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Please FORWARD this message to interested parties and relevant discussion lists and groups

Phone and Email consultations with Sam Vaknin - write for details:

pa...@unet.com.mk

Previous issues of this newsletter are available here:

http://groups.google.com/group/narcissisticabuse/

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/narcissisticabuse/messages

Enter the Mind of One Narcissist!

http://spaces.msn.com/members/narcissist/

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The Sadistic Patient - A Case Study

"Personality Disorders Revisited" (450 pages e-book) - click HERE to purchase!

By: Dr. Sam Vaknin

Disclaimer

The Sadistic personality disorder was included in the DSM III-TR but removed from the DSM IV and from its text revision, the DSM IV-TR. This was criticized by some scholars, notably Theodore Millon.

Notes of first therapy session with Jared, male, 43, diagnosed with Sadistic Personality Disorder

"A little discipline never hurt nobody." - repeats Jared, clearly amused. Beating a three year old and letting her freeze to near death on your doorstep in subzero temperatures, is this his idea of discipline? "It's one way or getting the message across" - Jared laughs heartily and then composes himself: "Listen, Doc, I am as merciful and compassionate as they come, believe you me. But what I can't stand is cry-babies, weaklings, and whining bitches. Besides, it's fun to see how a little ice does wonders to their sirens."

Why did he force the mother to dump her by now limp and profusely bleeding infant daughter outside the door? If she were a proper caretaker none of this would have happened. He wanted to show her wretched family who is the only boss in the household. "They were getting on my nerves, her mother and sister. They needed some re-education, like in them Chinese camps."- he chuckles. They all claim to be terrified of him and intimidated by his capricious and violent behavior. "I sure hope so!" - he smirks.

The kid says that you pinched her repeatedly and that's why she cried. "I was just kidding with her." Pinching hurts. "Sure does!" - he roars and slaps my shoulder across the desk - "I like you, Doc!" The slap hurt, too. Could he please refrain from doing it in the future? "Whatever turns you own, ma'shrink" - he accepts my interdict jovially.

The mother says that about a year ago you beat the same child and caused her grave injuries because she wouldn't cry when you pinched her and kicked her around. You kept yelling "cry, you bitch, cry." Then you mauled her because she wouldn't cry and now you spanked her because she did cry. "She has to make up her mind and stick to it. I respect that. But she can't change her behavior every time I pinch her. That's why I disciplined her. I want her to have a spine." It seems to me that he is the one who keeps changing the rules. his face darken and he leans forward, whispering hoarsely:

"I like you, Doc, and all - but don't cross the line here or you may get a taste of the same medicine yourself." Is this a threat? He merely glowers at me malevolently. Doesn't he like me any more? "(Expletive deleted) off."

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Click on these links to learn more:

Sadistic Personality Disorder

The Narcissist as a Sadist

Other People's Pain (Narcissism, Sadism, and Masochism)

The Misanthropic Altruist (Philanthropy as Sadistic Narcissism)

Case Studies

The Narcissist

The Psychopath

The Paranoid

The Borderline

The Schizoid

The Histrionic

The Avoidant

The Schizotypal

The Obsessive-Compulsive

The Dependent

The Masochist

Negativistic (Passive-Aggressive)

The Depressive

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Abused? Stalked? Harassed? Victimized? Afraid? Confused? Need HELP?

"The Narcissism Series" - (November 2006)

Eight e-books regarding Pathological Narcissism, relationships with abusive narcissists, and the Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).

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http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/thebook.html

NEW! Analyze This - Short Fiction about Narcissists

http://groups.msn.com/NARCISSISTICPERSONALITYDISORDER/analyzethis.msnw
Case Studies in the Narcissistic Personality Disorder List

http://groups.msn.com/NARCISSISTICPERSONALITYDISORDER/drvakninsweekly...

http://groups.msn.com/NARCISSISTICPERSONALITYDISORDER/drvakninsweekly...

Ask Sam on the Narcissistic Personality Disorder Support Group

http://groups.msn.com/narcissisticpersonalitydisorder/general.msnw?ac...

http://groups.msn.com/NARCISSISTICPERSONALITYDISORDER/general.msnw?ac...

http://groups.msn.com/NARCISSISTICPERSONALITYDISORDER/general.msnw?ac...

http://groups.msn.com/NARCISSISTICPERSONALITYDISORDER/general.msnw?ac...

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The Syphilitic Narcissist

"Personality Disorders Revisited" (450 pages e-book) - click HERE to purchase!

First published here: "Personality Disorders (Suite101)"

By: Dr. Sam Vaknin

It is common knowledge that brain disorders, injuries, and traumas are sometimes misdiagnosed as mental health problems. But what about "run of the mill" organic medical conditions? Syphilis provides a fascinating glimpse into the convoluted world of differential diagnoses: the art of telling one form of illness from another.

Syphilis is a venereal (sexually transmitted) disease. It has a few stages and involves unpleasant phenomena such as lesions and skin eruptions. Syphilis can go dormant (latent) for years or even decades before it affects the brain in a condition known as general paresis. Brain tissue is gradually destroyed by the tiny organisms that cause syphilis, the spirochetes. This progressive devastation causes mania, dementia, megalomania (delusions of grandeur), and paranoia.

Even when its existence is suspected, syphilis is difficult to diagnose. Most mental health clinicians are unlikely to try to rule it out. Syphilis in its tertiary (brain consuming) phase produces symptoms that are easily misdiagnosed as Bipolar Disorder combined with the Narcissistic and the Paranoid Personality Disorders.

Syphilitic patients in the tertiary stage are often described as brutal, suspicious, delusional, moody, irritable, raging, lacking empathy, grandiose, and demanding. They are indecisive and absorbed in irrelevant detail one moment and irresponsibly and manically impulsive the next. They exhibit disorganized thinking, transient false beliefs, mental rigidity, and obsessive-compulsive repetitive behaviors.

Fritz Redlich, retired Dean of the Yale Department of Psychiatry published "Hitler: Diagnosis of a Destructive Prophet" in 1998. In it, he describes the final stages of general neurosyphilitic paresis:

"... (S)igns and symptoms (include) rapid mental deterioration, psychotic and usually absurdly grandiose behavior..." (p. 231)

Misdiagnosing the Bipolar Disorder as Narcissistic Personality Disorder - click on this link

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/journal71.html

Misdiagnosing Asperger's Disorder as Narcissistic Personality Disorder - click on this link

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/journal72.html

Misdiagnosing General Anxiety Disorder (GAD) as Narcissistic Personality Disorder - click on this link

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/journal93.html
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AUTHOR BIO:

Sam Vaknin ( http://samvak.tripod.com ) is the author of Malignant Self Love - Narcissism Revisited and After the Rain - How the West Lost the East. He served as a columnist for Global Politician, Central Europe Review, PopMatters, Bellaonline, and eBookWeb, a United Press International (UPI) Senior Business Correspondent, and the editor of mental health and Central East Europe categories in The Open Directory and Suite101.

Visit Sam's Web site at http://samvak.tripod.com

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Links of Interest

NEW! Toxic Relationships Study Group

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/toxicrelationships

NEW! Open Site Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)

http://open-site.org/Health/Conditions_and_Diseases/Psychiatric_Disor...

NEW!!! Google Base Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Abuse in Relationships

http://base.google.com/base/search?authorid=1070013

NEW!!! 360 Degrees on Pathological Narcissism and Abusive Relationships

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Download chat transcripts, interviews, dialogs, articles, and bibliographies - click on this link:

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Download links to 309 narcissism and personality disorders online resources:

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/NPDWebliography.zip

NEW EDITION - Download The Narcissism Book of Quotes

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/NPDQuotes.rtf

NEW EDITION - Download Sample chapters from "Malignant Self Love - Narcissism Revisited"

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/MSL2excerpts.rtf

NEW!!! Tips of All Sorts

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http://www.tipsofallsorts.com/divorcing-a-narcissist.html

http://www.tipsofallsorts.com/paranoid-ex-spouse.html

NEW! Amazon blog

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Refer journalists and editors to my media kit:

http://malignantselflove.tripod.com/mediakit.html

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Abused? Stalked? Harassed? Victimized? Afraid? Confused? Need HELP?

Click on these links to purchase the PRINT BOOK and EIGHT E-BOOKS:

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Buy seven electronic books about narcissism and abusive relationships

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1. "Malignant Self Love - Narcissism Revisited" - EIGHTH, Revised Edition (November 2006)

The e-book version of Sam Vaknin's "Malignant Self - Love - Narcissism Revisited". Contains the entire text: essays, frequently asked questions (FAQs) and appendices regarding pathological narcissism and the Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).

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2. "The Narcissism Series" - EIGHTH, Revised Edition (November 2006)

EIGHT e-books (more than 2500 pages), including the full text of "Malignant Self Love - Narcissism Revisited", regarding Pathological Narcissism, relationships with abusive narcissists, and the Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).

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3. "Toxic Relationships - Abuse and its Aftermath" - Fourth Edition (February 2006)

How to identify abuse, cope with it, survive it, and deal with your abuser and with the system in divorce and custody issues.

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4. "Abusive Relationships Workbook" (February 2006)

Self-assessment questionnaires, tips, and tests for victims of abusers, batterers, and stalkers in various types of relationships.

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5. "Pathological Narcissism FAQs" - EIGHTH, Revised Edition (November 2006)

Dozens of Frequently Asked Questions regarding Pathological Narcissism, relationships with abusive narcissists, and the Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

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6. "The World of the Narcissist" - EIGHTH, Revised Edition (November 2006)

A book-length psychodynamic study of pathological narcissism, relationships with abusive narcissists, and the Narcissistic Personality Disorder, using a new vocabulary.

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7. "Excerpts from the Archives of the Narcissism List"

Hundreds of excerpts from the archives of the Narcissistic Abuse Study List regarding Pathological Narcissism, relationships with abusive narcissists, and the Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).

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8. "Diary of a Narcissist" (November 2005)

The anatomy of one man's mental illness - its origins, its unfolding, its outcomes.

Click on this link to purchase the ebook:

http://www.ccnow.com/cgi-local/cart.cgi?vaksam_JOURNAL

9. "The Narcissist and Psychopath in the Workplace" (September 2006)

Identify abusers, bullies, and stalkers in the workplace (bosses, colleagues, suppliers, and authority figures) and learn how to cope with them effectively.

http://www.ccnow.com/cgi-local/cart.cgi?vaksam_WORKPLACE

10. After the Rain - How the West Lost the East

The history, cultures, societies, and economies of countries in transition in the Balkans.

III. Download free electronic books - Click on this link:

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Malignant Self Love, Toxic Relationships - and MORE!!!

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Free excerpts from the EIGHTH, Revised Impression of "Malignant Self Love - Narcissism Revisited" are available as well as a NEW EDITION of the Narcissism Book of Quotes.

Click on this link to download the files:

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Have a safe and sunshine week!

Sam


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