Lay it on the line. Be bold, daring, and willing to know where your
relationship stand based on what you want, not based on what your
drifting partner wants. If you want XYZ and your partner wants ABC,
then the decision is already made based on what you want.
Many people negotiate a relationship based on the needs of their
partner while placing their own needs secondary. If you're willing to
stand up and say, "Hey, I really love you and we've shared some great
times together, but it appears we want different things so I think
it's best that we go our separate ways" - this takes guts.
In order to go there, you have to believe in yourself, know what your
goals are, and you must be willing to risk losing the one who may or
may not be right for you in order to get what you want. Don't try to
hang on to something by trying to change how someone else feels like
the majority of people do.
Or be a Super Hero by trying to bring what you want and what your
partner wants together. If it's not working, move on and do so without
attitude or making your partner feel guilty for not meeting your
needs....

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